In this article, author John Thomas Didymus discusses the possibility that Saudi women with "sexy eyes" might have to cover them up in public soon so that men will not be distracted by their "tempting eyes".
In Saudi Arabia, women are already required by law to wear a long black robe called "abaya" which covers practically every part of a woman's body from their feet to their hair. A small slit-like space is left at the eyes to allow the woman to see when she goes in public. If an "abaya" is not worn in public by Saudi Women, they can be punished with fines and public flogging.
The suggestion that women should cover their eyes came after a member of the Committee for the Promotion of Virtue and Prevention of Vice stared at a woman with "sexy eyes" as he walked innocently down a street. When the woman's husband caught the man staring at his wife, a fight broke out and the man with straying eyes was stabbed in the hand. The Committee is the morals watch dog for Saudi Arabian society and ensures that society keeps to the strict rules of morality.
Although a definition for "sexy eyes" has not been provided by the committee, it is assumed that they are "uncovered eyes with a nice shape and makeup. Or even without makeup, if they are beautiful, the woman will be in trouble." The committee has the support of the Saudi state, including Prince Naif and King Abdullah.
Non-Verbal Communication
Two components
about secret of “Sexy Eyes”
1. How being
hidden inspires imagination
Have you ever felt people own secrets or dark
atmosphere are attractive? If yes, it is because they inspire your intellectual
curiosity and imagination. Humans generally find excitement when to look for
reasons of matters because the answer allows bringing ease after “OH! Make
sense!” (logical understanding).
Saudi women always must wear abaya, a dark
fabric covers entire body. But, eye is the only exceptional part of body
that is exposed from a small slit between the upper portion of the fabric. It is natural that the “sexy
eye” brings men excitement through imagination if there is no other feature to
judge the woman’s external beauty.
VS.
Exposed Muscle vs. Hidden Muscle
2. Eye contact brings love
2. Eye contact brings love
“Eye Contact” is a form of non-verbal communication
and often provides social and emotional information to others. A psychological study
of eye contact (body language) called “Eye Reading” tells the person’s mental
status. It has been known that eye is a reflection of the emotion because eyes
make several fixed movements according to the intention.
This eye contact takes important roles at any scene
between men and women. Eye contact often becomes the reason to start
relationship. But, why are people attracted to eyes so much?
This is because people are biologically
attracted to round objects.
Do you know why babies are soft and round? This is
because babies need protection. They are not able to live by themselves so must
look for protection offered by adults. Since people unconsciously find
attractive and take protective behavior towards small and round objects, babies
are born small and round.
So as eyes are consisted of many round shapes. Eye lid
is oval, eye balls are round, the pupils and irises are perfectly circle. It is
natural that people feel emotional movements towards eye and its
impressions.
Example:
Communication through Eyes
Japanese "Lolita" Subculture: eye makeup emphasizes modesty and youthfulness.
India: vibrant colors demonstrate the impact of Bollywood and the importance of Color in India.
The power of eye contact as non-verbal communication can be seen in the example. Dressing up the eyes can have different meanings depending on the culture or subculture.
Japanese "Lolita" Subculture: eye makeup emphasizes modesty and youthfulness.
India: vibrant colors demonstrate the impact of Bollywood and the importance of Color in India.
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